AVOID HARM IN ISLAM! FORCED CHILD MARRIAGE, RAPE OF GIRLS AND CLITORAL MUTILATION

1. FORCED CHILD MARRIAGE AND CONSEQUENT RAPE

UNICEF and other organizations have conducted studies on the percentages of girls married before the age of 18 by country. Of the top 8 countries in the ranking, 6 are majority Muslim:

1. Niger: 76% of girls are married before the age of 18.
2. Central African Republic: 68%.
3. Chad: 67%.
4. Bangladesh: 59%.
5. Mali: 52%.
6. South Sudan: 52%.
7. Burkina Faso: 52%.
8. Guinea: 51%.

Of the states whose laws permit child marriage (even for girls aged 8 or younger), as there is no legal age limit for marriage, almost all are Muslim, such as Saudi Arabia, Libya or Mauritania. In some, it is possible with a judge’s consent, such as Syria or Iran, and in others from puberty (usually from 9-10 years of age), such as Yemen and Somalia. All of them are Muslim.

Most of these marriages are forced. They even take place in the West. For example, according to a British government study, in the United Kingdom, the majority of forced marriages occur within the Pakistani and Bangladeshi communities.

The UN considers child marriage a violation of human rights and aims to eradicate it by 2030. A girl is especially vulnerable to spousal abuse and childhood pregnancy, which puts her health and her future in great danger. Organizations such as UNICEF warn about the medical risks of vaginal sexual relations with very young girls and teenagers, including their hips being too narrow to give birth safely and the risk of fistula—that is, the tearing of the wall between the vagina and the anus.

Furthermore, child marriage is regarded as a form of modern slavery by organizations dedicated to combating this scourge, as victims are bound for life to their husbands and are often subjected to violence if they do not comply.

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What does the Quran say about all this?

Quran 65:4

“As for your women past the age of menstruation, in case you do not know, their waiting period is three months, and those who have not menstruated as well“.

This verse refers to the waiting period (iddah) that women must observe after divorce before they can marry again. The mention of girls who have not yet menstruated has sparked interpretations and debates, as it is considered an indication that prepubescent girls may be subject to marriage and, therefore, also to divorce.

On the other hand, numerous Hadiths (biographies containing the sayings and deeds of Muhammad, which constitute the second pillar of traditional Islam) narrate that Muhammad married Aisha when she was 6 or 7 years old and consummated it (intercourse with penetration) when she was 9 or 10, while Muhammad was 53 years old. Some of those texts are as follows:

Sahih Bukhari 5:58:236:

“Khadija died three years before the Prophet departed to Medina. He stayed there for two years or so and then he married ‘Aisha when she was a girl of six years of age, and he consumed that marriage when she was nine years old”.

Sahih Bukhari 7:62:65:

“Narrated By ‘Aisha : That the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old. Hisham said: I have been informed that ‘Aisha remained with the Prophet for nine years (i.e. till his death).”

Sahih Muslim, 1422:

!”Allah’s Messenger (may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) married me when I was six years old, and I was admitted to his house at the age of nine“.

Sahih Muslim 8:3310-3311:

“’A’isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported that Allah’s Apostle (peace be upon him) married her when she was seven years old, and she was taken to his house as a bride when she was nine years old, and her dolls went with her; and when he (the Holy Prophet) died, she was eighteen years old.”

Other Hadiths include Al-Bukhari, 3894, Sahih Bukhari 8:73:151, and Sahih Bukhari 5:58:234.

There are even classical scholars who speak of the possibility of performing intercourse with girls as long as it does not involve al-ifḍāʾ (rupture of the wall between the vagina and the anus).

Regarding forced marriage, some schools of jurisprudence consider it permissible for virgins or those who have not reached puberty.

2. CLITORAL ABLATION

The Quran says nothing on this subject, but there are Hadiths indicating that the prophet tacitly approved of this practice (Sahih Muslim 3:684), prescribed circumcision in general (Sahih Bukhari 7:72:777), and commented generically on its implementation (Sunan Abu Dawud 41:5251).

For example, the Hadith Umdat al-Salik, Section e4.3 on Circumcision, establishes that it is obligatory for every man and woman. And in this, one must cut the badhar or qat’ al-badhar (بَظْرٌ), which means the clitoris or the prepuce of the clitoris.

For this reason, the Islamic legal tradition has welcomed female genital mutilation with open arms, being obligatory or recommended by the 4 major Islamic schools: obligatory in the Shafi’i and encouraged in the Hanafi, Hanbali, and Maliki.

LET’S ERADICATE ALL THESE ARCHAIC PRACTICES!

Fortunately, there are more and more modernist Muslims who are against all of the above.

Based on a progressive interpretation of the Quran, they argue that these practices violate Islamic principles of justice, dignity, and well-being. They promote education and informed consent in marriage, advocating that girls should have the opportunity to develop fully before marrying. To this end, they mention verses from the Quran such as 4:19:

“O believers! It is not permissible for you to inherit women against their will or mistreat them to make them return some of the dowry as a ransom for divorce—unless they are found guilty of adultery. Treat them fairly”.

Likewise, they condemn clitoral ablation as a violation of human rights and bodily integrity. In short, they seek to harmonize Islamic values with universal rights, promoting just and equitable societies.

Let’s help them spread their civilized version of Islam. How can we do this?

1. By signing to ask all Muslim religious leaders to interpret the Quran in a benign way. Sign…

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5. Convincing the Muslims you know of the desirability of a peaceful, benign and liberal Islam.

If you remain indifferent, cold and passive, you are a contributor to these abuses against girls. If you move, even if only a little, you will contribute to achieving a tolerant and cruelty-free Islam that respects them.

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